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Discount Price: $99 USD

Coaching and Counseling Services are conducted online through Skype or FaceTime. Clients are responsible for downloading their preferred software. You may be surprised how easily our personal connection is made online and how effective the format is. Bring your mug of tea and wear something comfortable. Clients have their session in their homes, their offices, their cars, coffee shops (with ear buds), etc. Flexibility and a sense of privacy are key! If you prefer a phone consultation, the call is initiated by you (my number provided after purchase) and you absorb all charges.

If you aren’t sure if online coaching is right for you—take advantage of the discounted One Time/One Hour Trial Session option that is mentioned above. If you aren’t sure what topics to address, here are some topics that might be important to you:

Communications

• Finding the words to inform those who need to know while minimizing the risk of harmful and ignorant remarks.

• Finding the age appropriate way to let children know as much they need to know, without setting yourself up for more harm.

• Communicating effectively with sex addiction treatment staff about your priorities for yourself and for your children.

• Preparing healthy and positive resources for children to have for any emergent discussions of their father/stepfather’s behaviors.

• Dealing with the loss of relationships you thought you could count on.

• Avoiding the triangulation trap with children, friends, treatment practitioners, and others.

Managing and Diminishing Trauma Symptoms

• Empowering yourself and your children with simple tools to lessen or even eliminate trauma symptoms and additional life distress.

• I can’t seem to do anything. It’s terrifying. Where did I go? I’m a complete mess. How can I get through this?

• I just need to tell this story to someone who will actually understand it and not blame me for it or tell me to get over it.

• Learn what adult trauma assessment includes and what a basic tri-phasic model for trauma care means so you can find the right help for yourself.

• Playing the forgiveness card vs. the authentic grounded spiritual practice of offering and receiving forgiveness.

• Dealing with the loss of relationships you thought you could count on.

Children of All Ages

• Simple tools to check in with your minor children’s wellbeing and learn when additional support may be needed.

• Children are a lot of work. When he doesn’t really want the children, but is using them for impression management.

• Managing relationships with adult children who sometimes treat you with cruelty and disrespect.

• Empowering yourself and your children with simple tools to lessen or even eliminate trauma symptoms and additional life distress.

• Dealing with the loss of relationships you thought you could count on.

Identifying Abuse Patterns and Tactics in Him and Others

• How to stop donating and start negotiating: it’s a relationship not a charity.

• Dealing with 12-step: when he uses his “new” secret life to abuse you further.

• Learn what adult trauma assessment includes and what a basic tri-phasic model for trauma care means so you can find the right help for yourself.

• Learning about the Big Boundary Bluff—when his treatment group know he will continue to violate basic adult relational expectations so they put you in charge of fixing it.

• Learning about his current and predictable behaviors so you can cope and protect yourself.

• Self-love isn’t just another thing at which to fail. It’s the way forward and you can do it even if you never have before.

• Learn what adult trauma assessment includes and what a basic tri-phasic model for trauma care means so you can find the right help for yourself.

• Playing the forgiveness card vs. the authentic grounded spiritual practice of offering and receiving forgiveness.

• What to expect when covert/emotional incest grows up and you marry into it.

Healing Your Spirit:

• Playing the forgiveness card vs. the authentic grounded spiritual practice of offering and receiving forgiveness.

• Who should you believe and what kind of hope is being served?

• When your faith community and/or spiritual leaders choose to make him the priority and punish you overtly or covertly.

• When you cannot pray, can’t worship, cant’ tell, can’t be with your faith community.

• Core value work that clarifies your sense of self and makes you visible to others.

• “I will never be a victim!” But it’s already too late. Only you can end it by becoming a survivor and learning to be the heroine of your own life.

• Sunrise to Sunset: rituals of self-love

• Learning to use holistic process for making good decisions in a bad situation.

Self-love—Your Non-optional Superpower:

• How not to fail at the most important and non-optional superpower of Self-Love

• Sunrise to Sunset: rituals of self-love

• Core value work that clarifies your sense of self and makes you visible to others.

• Learning about the Big Boundary Bluff—when his treatment group know he will continue to violate basic adult relational expectations so they put you in charge of fixing it.

• Learning to use holistic process for making good decisions in a bad situation.

• How to stop donating and start negotiating: it’s a relationship not a charity.

• Dealing with the loss of relationships you thought you could count on.

Strategies and Preparation in Separation and Divorce

• Learning about his current and predictable behaviors so you can cope and protect yourself.

• Learning to use holistic process for making good decisions in a bad situation.

• What does effective participation in separation negotiations, mediation, court appearances, and other court-ordered processes include?

• Core value work that clarifies your sense of self and makes you visible to others.

$540 USD

(Extra Value @ $110 USD each hour)

$999 USD

(Best Value @ $99.90 USD each hour)